After this the Lord appointed seventy-two others and sent them two by two ahead of him to every town and place where he was about to go.  . . .  ”When you enter a house, first say, ‘Peace to this house.’”         — Luke 10: 1,5  (NIV)

Community building is all about finding “persons of peace.” Jesus spoke with urgency – telling his disciples NOT to stop and chit chat on the road, as would be the hospitable custom. Instead, they had a goal – a purpose. Go to a house, and offer peace. See if the guy responds!

In at least our current model of church and church planting, we feel “comfortable” inviting people – to “church.” But Jesus did not say anything about inviting people to the local synagogue – or to church, did he? We may need to seriously challenge how we practice what Jesus taught.

Um, Hi, Great to meet you?

Let’s ask a pertinent question: What does it look like to greet people with peace?

Tomorrow my husband, Tim, and I launch out into a new way of finding and greeting persons of peace. We’re taking what we’ve learned over the past three years and filtering it into this mission concept: Greet people with peace.

We will be sailing from Baltimore, MD to Hampton, VA, stopping in ports along the way to greet people.

Jesus is sending us out.

So what does it look like to offer peace on our mission? How do we know if we are to “stay with that person” – or move on? Is it a “feel”? Or is it the tacos we ate for lunch? How specific about Jesus do we get in the greeting? What is the purpose of a greeting? Is there a “place” or a “way” to lead that conversation? Hmmmm.

Here’s what I think. Jesus wanted us to be focused – to be urgent – and to know something about what we would actually say. For me, that works best if I have prayed, thought and reflected on past conversations and scripture, and have a specific plan.

I need “words in my head” that help me navigate with the Spirit.

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the full swing rhythm of lifeThe traditional way of doing church Burns Out pastors. If you’re reading this, and nodding your head, you’re probably a pastor in a traditional or contemporary setting!

I know … because I was about as close to Burn Out when I left the traditional church pastor scene as I ever want to be. No one ever told me that it could actually be different! Seminary, nada. Mentoring, zilch. Congregations, well now, they have needs which continue to climb higher.

One of the key issues that we see repeatedly with leaders is an unbalanced rhythm of life. Missional leaders almost always work too hard and don’t intentionally take rest time – for themselves, their spouse, children, friends, and for their personal walk with the Father. Somehow all the Ten Commandments are valid, except for the one about having a day off, which in our work-ethic-drive culture we have marked with a little asterisk and put a footnote reading, ‘Optional if you are about the Lord’s business!’ – in Launching Missional Communities by Mike Breen & Alex Absalom, Location 1500 of 5378, Kindle Version.

Taking a day off is critical for recharging. I’ve pretty much practiced that piece the right way.  However, I’m going to say something radical and challenging here. Taking one day off is not enough to reconnect with God and health. A rhythm of life is needed. [click to continue…]

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How Big Does “It” Have To Be – For Success?

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Come on now, you know what I mean, right? In recent years, the fall of the numbers has us pondering what God wants us to “really” measure. And we know this is true: we must not measure numbers to gauge success. How come I mentally still count the numbers? How come I feel disappointed if [...]

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Getting Your Email into Evernote, Part 2 of Evernote Productivity

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(The TSW program shows you how to use Microsoft Outlook – see www.thesecretweapon.org.) Evernote has a repository of software called “The Trunk.” A free program in The Trunk, called IFITT, https://trunk.evernote.com/app/ifttt/web-apps,  will allow you to send Gmail to Evernote and to a specific notebook (so you can use The Secret Weapon for processing email). GMAIL to [...]

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Evernote: The Way of Ministry Productivity, Part 1

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My email is overpowering me. My brain is full of little snippets of information about where I’m supposed to be, projects coming up, and people I’ve met. My brain leaks. Church Planting requires organization – of people, places, businesses, events, thoughts, meetings, relating people together, studying scripture, writing blog posts, emailing and social media messaging. [...]

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Your Spouse :: Your Co-Leader?

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This past week, we had an interesting coaching group call. (We talk via conference call.) I am the ordained pastor in the family. My husband would be quick to point out that he did not marry a pastor. I became a pastor after quite a few years of marriage. Jock, our coaching intern, mentioned how [...]

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The Engel Scale – a structure for evangelism processes

March 24, 2013

Here is a basic premise we’ve found to be true: Postmodern people have little real knowledge of God (lack of religious education or readership of the Bible or long experience with a church) and are generally distrustful of Christians. Wait, here comes a tension! I have assumed it possible to simply “get to the question” [...]

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Planning for Discipleship, Rather than Fritter the Day Away?!

March 11, 2013

I want to make disciples, be available to them (and my family), and feel at the end of the day that I did something significant – that I was supposed to do with my 24 hours which God gave me. How about you? I have scritch -scratch doodles and notes in my notebook (a composition [...]

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Hardest Part About Starting a New Community: Prayer

March 8, 2013

I’ve been a part of clergy groups starting new communities, and it’s interesting that the hardest part of this ministry among us is Prayer. It feels like this should be a no brainer – to pray. But the busyness and business of ministry is capable of pushing prayer to a “quickie” rather than to a [...]

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Read Mike Breen’s newest blog: I want an orchard

March 6, 2013

Mike is at it again – a renegade just like Jesus! What if we were to focus on fruitfulness and not success? See his blog post, http://weare3dm.com/mikebreen/we-are-3dm/are-we-on-the-brink-of-a-new-reformation/ What if we had small trees with lots of fruit rather than big trees with little fruit? What if we had an orchard? What if we grew an [...]

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